When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when twenty four hours in a day are not enough, remember the Mayonnaise jar and the two cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.

When the class began,wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed to it.

The professor next picked a box of sand and poured into the jar. Of course the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with unanimous ”yes.”

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty spaces between the sand. The students laughed.

”Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, ”I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things-your God,family,your children,your health,your friends,and your favorite passion– things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job,your house, and your car.

The sand is everything else–the small stuff.

”If you put the sand into the jar first” he continued, ” there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.  Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. Their will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.”

Take care of the golf balls first–the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled. ”I am glad you you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full you life may seem,there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”

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One sunday morning,i was suppose to travel to Kilifi.I did not book in advance, i was hoping to get the morning bus and book that morning i was suppose to travel. I had a fixed mindset of travelling to Kilifi from Nairobi directly.Their is always the option of travelling to Mombasa then proceeding to Kilifi but on another vehicle,though this had not struck my mind by then.. Unluckily, i found when the bus had already left.Stranded i did not know what to do, it meant i had to book the next days bus go back to school.

I had to call my mother and tell her that i was not going to make it on that day,she simply said that i could have booked the one for Mombasa if i had missed for Kilifi.The funny thing is that the bus that was suppose to travel to Mombasa nearly took half an hour waiting for passangers after the departure of Kilifi bound bus. I simply did not plan in advance,incase this fails, what next??.Life lesson i adopted since that encounter.

What really made me write about this is a simple question i asked two of my friends. ”What do you see when you look at the sky at night.” The first one responded, ”I see The Milkyway,” The second one responded, ”I see peace and no rain.”

The first one saw what is visible to everyone who can see, but the second one saw what is not visible to the eyes. From my point of veiw, atleast i can say that the milkyway is visible, but it takes another road for me to see what the second person sees,”Peace and no rain.” This made me start seeing things from different perspectives and the question,


img_mouseover3Sunday, it is  a day when most people love to spend close to their relatives or families. To me, the day is usually a relaxed one with very few activities taking place especially in my home town Kisumu,Kenya.

I sat down and thought maybe i should write about this day.

When i was young, this day would start by preparations by going to the church. I usually accompanied my mum and younger brother to and from the church. I take you back to one of those beautiful days.

The summon has just ended, today i did not go to sunday school class, i stayed with my mum in the main church.At thirteen, i considered myself too  old to be attending the Sunday school classes, but deep within i knew it was just the assignment that the Sunday school teachers used to give that made me not attend those classes, or being taught by one of those boring male teachers  that usually came to teach us when teacher Mikkel was not around.I had enough grimace looking faces of teachers at my primary school,that could not count in to a weekend class that is optional. For me, never.

Sheila and her sisters storm the church building going to their parents. They are usually lively and always seem to be running,or call that walking faster. I usually wonder where they get such energy from especially at this time of the day when the scotching sun  gives out such heat. what i am about to do is start looking pathetic,like i have not eaten for days,when my mum sees this, that means a snack on our way home is inevitable.I am so good at faking hunger that none of my siblings  always want to go with me anywhere.

We arrive at a fruit vendor, after bargaining for a while,a price is settled and my mum gives me the fruit to carry. Today we are going to eat a pineapple when we reach home,this brightens up my face.Now all i am praying is that we do not get to meet with one of those friends of my mother that usually had endless stories to tell, especially when she had our hands held by hers because this means that we will be standing close to them with nowhere to go. Fortunately we do not get to come by one of those friends of hers.


Kenya is my country. it is considered as one of the most developed countries in East and Central Africa. It is everyone’s happiness to see their nation prosper and continue to grow economically. What captured my attention was that it was ranked among the rapidly developing countries ion Africa besides Kenya being a non oil producing country.

Now that is about to change, recently, oil was discovered in the northern parts of the country and specked an excitement in every Kenyans heart. This natural resource means that my country can reach the status of countries that have developed due to oil exploration.

Sudan, Libya are also oil producing countries that have known nothing but civil unrest in the recent past. Libya was doing well in terms of development until the outside powers decided to interfere with their national matters by aiding in the removal of its leader,Muamar Gaddafi by rebels. Until the removal of the Libyan leader, the country was debt free and enjoying high living standards.

It is my hope that this commodity oil will impact positively to the growth of this nation, and no unrest will occur in future because of it. Our leaders should bench mark in South Africa and see how they have managed to be peaceful with all their natural resources in terms o management.

It takes years to build a nation, but it only takes  a very short time to be destroyed when war brakes out as witnessed in Libya. Let Kenya not witness such.


Family is defined as basic social unit consisting of parents and their children considered as a group whether living together or not. Family is a very important aspect in the community as it is where individuals in the society get to learn the basic acceptable principles the community acknowledges.

In Africa, It is usually considered that if an individual does unacceptable things that might end oneself in a rehabilitation centers, then it is the family that failed in raising up a good individual.

Every parent therefore has the task of  ensuring that their children grow up doing things that will impact positively in there lives.This includes ensuring that they get a good education, following up on there hobbies,talents and other  activities that are of beneficial to both mental and physical growth.

Their is no happier person in this world than a parent who has seen their children by God’s grace grow up to become responsible persons in the community, it is an exhibition of a rewarded hard work in life.

Children, it is also something visible to us of how our parents have worked so hard in raising us up,taking us to the schools they could afford, and ensuring that we get the education many would wish to have. It is our sole responsibility to always put a smile on their(our parents) faces.This usually does not go unrewarded. We can always tell the rewards in our lives.

Lastly, one thing never to always forget in our life, is a saying i read in the good book.” Honor your parents,the first commandment with a promise” The promise is,”That it may be well with you”

Have a good week.


The coast of Kenya is a unique place of its own  in in East and central Africa. It has beautiful sea shores that attracts both local and international tourists. Spending a holiday here is the best option one could ever make since it is worth it.

As it is evident, we have to talk about tourism for this area to continue growing economically, it is through tourism that the locals are able to get a livelihood, this can be through employment by the government of Kenya to work in the many tourist destinations around coastal region, or through self employment by selling local products to the tourists that visit the region.

Majority of the locals in this area, especially as you leave Mombasa town heading north of Mombasa , that is Kilifi, Malindi and Lamu towns still throng in extreme  poverty. This means that the tourism industry is not doing enough to raise the living standards of those around the coastal region of Kenya. Despite making many school going youths skip classes and start begging for money at the sea shore lines, tourism industry in Kenya is unstable due to the recent insecurity issues in the country.

It would be good idea for the government of Kenya to establish more industries in this region, to name a few,Fruit factory in Malindi, milk and meat processing firms Tana river and Tana delta. The government can also increase the living standards by reviving factories that stopped functioning like cashew-nuts industry in Kilifi and sugar cane factory in Ramisi in Kwale county.This would help the locals here not to be fully dependent on the tourism industry, to add on which has its peaks at certain times of the year. It is good news  how the government of Kenya is making effort to deliver to its citizens. This can be seen through numerous infrastructure projects such as; The Lamu Port South Sudan Ethiopia Transport  project. I am looking forward to seeing a prosperous country in all aspects.